Book – A girl doesn’t become a librarian without some fairly solid organizational skills. When it comes to home management, however, I have always sworn that I won’t turn into my mother–a woman I deeply admire, but who very nearly cannot leave the house if the vacuum cleaner is not in the closet and who has a hard time falling asleep if there are dishes in the sink. Not, I insisted to myself, that I would ever allow my house to be actually dirty, but was it really the end of the world if a basket of clean laundry took a day (or two, or five) to get folded? That I even had clean laundry was an accomplishment, surely. And my room was, after all, already much neater than so-and-so’s. And besides, it had been a busy week. And over the weekend, I’d have one massive cleaning session, and then the entire house would be beautiful and shiny at the same time. And [insert today’s excuse for not cleaning here].
How to Manage Your Home Without Losing Your Mind is for those of us who do genuinely want to live a tidier life, but whose home-keeping has not yet graduated into the land of Martha Stewart and The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up. A non-traditional, chatty and readable handbook from a self-professed recovering slob and blogger, White’s book is effective for non-neat-freaks because it’s by a non-neat-freak. It’s full of simple strategies to set and keep small but meaningful habits that add up, slowly but surely, to a cleaner and happier place to live. She does a particularly good job of analyzing and codifying mental blocks like “slob vision” (not noticing out-of-place items until untidiness reaches critical mass) and proposing practical solutions which, unlike the admirable but overly ambitious goals of many advanced housekeeping manuals, are actually sustainable for everyone.
The verdict? On the busiest week in recent memory, my laundry is all folded and my sink is empty of dishes. And as far as I’m concerned, that counts as a definite win.